fem stuff

then why is the performance of femininity supposed to be for them?

Like wouldn’t that mean like ruffly pink heart shaped stuff be only for wlw?

IDK

My childhood crush

was Jodie Foster in Freaky Friday and Candleshoe and also in Bugsy Malone.

My lil’ baby gaydar was so good.

And maybe I’m this barbie doll

partially because I can’t give women I love the validation of “this is my boyfriend, here is a man who is adequate at performing manhood saying I am a valid and valuable woman” so instead I’ve turned myself into the stereotype of the trophy girl… because maybe somehow that’d help?

Also I Feel Like I Exist In This Weird Liminal State Sexuality Wise

Cause like I’m bi/pan/whatever I guess… like I like fem people of all sorts of genders… but like I mostly prefer women and most of my sexual and romantic relationships have been with women and like I kind of get where some lesbian stuff comes from and where bi/pan/non-lesbian wlw stuff comes from and IDK and like it’s shitty that a lot of women feel like they have to “catch a man” in order to be thoroughly validated, like there have been partners I’ve had where I can’t give them that kind of validation and it’s sucked and IDK.

Loving and appreciating and supporting other femmes instead of competing with them for sexual attention is one of the best and most positive things in my life

Also

The fact that women who look like strippers (sex worker tumblr ya’ll know what I mean) are assumed to be heterosexual is so bizarre to me.

Like if there’s a group of professions more filled with WLW than sex work IDK what it is.