You know the kind I mean? And on the one hand I have a lot of empathy for all upset teenage girls because being a teenage girl is shitty and upsetting, but on the other hand it’s really shitty and ableist and like it’s hard to come down on her because you understand why she’s interested in them and it’s because she’s sad and alienated but on the other hand the romanticization of the whole dealio is real fucked up.