being a trans woman doesn’t make gender abolition not a TERF ideology that harms trans people though

I don’t think it’s really my place to tell trans women what their relationship to gender should be.  Like I’m no gender abolitionist, but I’ve met more than a few trans women with gender abolitionist tendencies and I feel like if it’s an ideology that this many trans women have it’s worth hearing them out about what they mean and why, because their gender abolitionism has always been very different from the gender abolitionist theory I’ve heard from TERFs