Like you know what? Going out to eat if there’s not a place you actually want to go is kinda pointless, why go out to eat if there’s no place good? If you’re tired or whatever maybe just order take out, why go sit in the restaurant if you’re already tired.
Don’t be in relationships for the sake of being in a relationship or married, your default state should not be “I want to get married” even if you’re into the whole marriage dealy, it should be “I want to get married if I meet someone I want to marry’
Just like you rarely “just want to go out to eat” you want to go out if there’s somewhere you want to go.