You Know, I Think Hetero Courtship Would Make More Sense

If the usual thing was for women to approach men,

cause like having the group more likely to be a potential physical threat do the approaching makes it way more likely that the interaction creeps out/scares the recipient than the reverse

And so het women would be happy because hey not getting perved on so much (actually for all women cause like if men aren’t approaching you, men aren’t approaching you regardless of sexuality) and not having to watch every interaction like a hawk for hints of flirtation, and het men would be happy because they’re not as worried about coming off as scumbags.