Dominant men need to realise that starting off any kind of conversation with a dick pic or an order or calling themselves Master or Sir or Daddy and asking us to be “good girls/boys” is disgusting.
Real dominance doesn’t come from demands or attempting to force a submissive to submit, it comes from being respectful, being a gentleman and understand that submission is a gift. It’s not a right. It’s not yours to take. It’s ours to give.
This should be directed to all dominants. Not just men.
Why? I’ve NEVER been approached by a woman in a sexual way and been told to call her Mistress right off the bat. On any social media platform.
Ever.
^ preeeeetttty much.
Though I do not like the submission as a gift model because it ignores the importance of the consent of the dominant, and dominants can have their consent violated (I’m a pro-domme, lifestyle sub). Submission is a choice