Okay, so you know how there’s the stereotype that submissive dudes are all CEOs and politicians and whatever when they’re not tied up being called “Binky the cuckold” or whatever?

How come the equivalent is that all powerful women are really submissive?  Not that all submissive women are powerful outside of the bedroom, but that all powerful women are really submissive.

So like the assumption is that all submissive men are really powerful and all powerful women are really submissive… do you see why this is fucked?

I mean, yes I am a loud angry bitch outside of the bedroom.  I shout a lot and have very loud opinions and yeah, I’m a sub, but I think it’s more because hey, I’m like that fuckin’ CEO who needs a break some time (without being bourgeois slime) and not every loud angry shouty lady is a sub, some people don’t need a break.

Also how come dominant dudes are supposed to be Mr. Dominating and powerful outside of sex as well?  Like in my experience a lot of doms of all genders are really sweet and shy and quiet outside of D/s stuff and are really attentive, giving partners (D does so much sweet shit for me, like SO much)